Kink Calendar: A List of Kinky Holidays in 2025

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The kink community thrives on expression, exploration, and celebration. Throughout the year, a variety of holidays and observances offer opportunities to embrace our passions, connect with others, and honor the diversity of the kinky world. Whether you're a seasoned participant or new to the scene, there's a date for everyone to celebrate. These holidays offer us a chance to pause, reflect, and immerse ourselves in the vibrant tapestry of kink culture.

From individual self-discovery to shared experiences with partners, these dates provide moments to deepen our understanding of ourselves and others. Let’s dive into the year of kink and explore these sexy, empowering, and playful holidays together!

Why Celebrate Kink Holidays?

Kink holidays go beyond the surface of fun and frivolity—they provide a vital space for education, connection, and advocacy. These holidays encourage us to:

• Connect with like-minded individuals who share our interests
• Deepen our understanding of fetishes and BDSM practices.
• Foster self-love and appreciation for our own bodies and desires.
• Strengthen bonds with partners through shared explorations and adventures.
• Advocate for marginalized communities, such as sex workers and LGBTQ+ individuals, within the kink world.

Celebrating these holidays brings us closer as a community while allowing for personal growth and exciting new experiences.

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January

Start the year with self-love and fetish exploration

Self Love Month

Embrace self-care and prioritize yourself this month. Reflect on your desires and connect with what brings you joy.

• 13th – Shower Together Day: Turn your daily routine into an intimate moment of connection.
• 5th – National Fetish Day : Explore your fetishes or learn about new ones, from role-playing to restraint. Share your favorites with a partner or dive into research to expand your horizons.

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February

Body awareness and flirty fun

Safer Sex Awareness Month

Acknowledge the importance of practicing safer sex to protect yourself and your partners.

Body Awareness Month

Celebrate your body for all its uniqueness and beauty. Love it, nurture it, and revel in its power.

2nd full week - International Flirting Week

• 7th – National Work Naked Day: Free yourself from constrictive clothing while you work!
• 13th – National Condom Day: Stock up and explore the creative ways condoms can enhance your play.<
• 14th – Valentine’s Day: Celebrate love in all its forms, including self-love or kinky love.
• 16th – Mardi Gras: Indulge in decadence, sensuality, and creativity. Add beads and masks to your scenes for extra spice.

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March

Threesomes and community support

20th - 27th Young Swingers Week

• 3rd – National Threesome Day: Whether in real life or virtually, invite a third party to join the fun with consent and creativity.
• 3rd – International Sex Worker Rights Day: Support sex workers by advocating for their rights, purchasing their services, or donating to organizations that champion their causes.
• 5th – National Restock Your Lube Day: Lube is a bedroom essential—take this opportunity to try new formulas.
• 14th – Steak & Blowjob Day: Treat your partner to a feast for the senses

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April

Appreciation and exploration

Couples Appreciation Month

Use this month to reflect on your relationship and share experiences that bring you closer.

• 14th – Cake & Cunnilingus Day: Enjoy sweet treats and sensual pleasure.
• 16th – National Horny Day: Celebrate desire by indulging in fantasies or reconnecting with your partner.
• 18th – Anal Sex Day: Try exploring new sensations and techniques for consensual backdoor play.
• 24th – National Lingerie Day: Dress up in your sexiest outfits to feel confident and empowered.

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May

Masturbation and outdoor adventures

International Masturbation Month

Self-pleasure is an act of self-love. Discover new toys, techniques, and fantasies to deepen your connection with yourself.

• 8th – Outdoor Intercourse Day: Bring your passion outdoors with privacy and creativity.
• 24th – Pansexual & Panromantic Awareness Day: Celebrate love and attraction that transcends traditional boundaries.

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June

Pride and kinky positions

LGBTQ+ Pride Month

Celebrate diversity and support the LGBTQ+ community. Dive into the history of Pride and reflect on how you can foster inclusivity.

• 2nd – National Sex Workers Day: Acknowledge the resilience and importance of sex workers.
• 9th – National 69 Day: Play with this iconic position for a day of mutual pleasure
• 22nd – No Panty Day: Embrace freedom and confidence by going commando.

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July

Nudity, BDSM, and happy endings

Tickling Month

Rediscover tickling as a playful, sensual, or even torturous form of intimacy. Try feathers, brushes, or fingers for new sensations.

• 6th – International Kissing Day: Shower your partner with kisses to show affection and build intimacy.
• 14th – National Nude Day: Embrace body positivity by going au naturel.
• 21st – Handjob Day: Focus on the art of giving and receiving pleasure with intention.
• 24th – BDSM Day: Explore bondage, dominance, submission, or masochism for the first time—or deepen your practice.

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August

Romance and female pleasure

Romance Awareness Month

Show your partner love through thoughtful gestures and intimate moments.

• 5th – National Underwear Day: Beat the summer heat by donning your favorite sexy underwear—or none at all!
• 8th – International Day of the Female Orgasm: Celebrate and prioritize female pleasure with creativity and intention.
• 13th – International Swingers Day: An opportunity to explore ethical non-monogamy or connect with the swinging community.
• 23rd – Go Topless Day: Advocate for gender equality and celebrate body freedom by going topless where legally allowed.

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September

sexual health and bi-visibility

Sexual Health Awareness Month

Expand your understanding of sexual health beyond STIs by focusing on pleasure, intimacy, and communication.

• 4th – World Sexual Health Day: A global celebration of sexual health, rights, and freedom.
• 6th – National Read a (Kinky) Book Day: Broaden your horizons with literature that educates or excites.
• 23rd – Bisexuality Day: Raise awareness and celebrate the bisexual community, which bridges multiple identities.

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October

Kink and erotic exploration

National Kink Month

This is the ultimate month to explore fantasies, role-playing, and new dynamics. Dedicate time to experiment with something you’ve always been curious about.

• 1st – Massage Day: Start the month with relaxation and sensuality—perfect for unwinding and connecting with your partner.
• 6th – Kink Day: Embrace and celebrate the wide spectrum of kink, from softcore to hardcore, with pride.
• 20th – Love Your Body Day: Appreciate your body for all it does and how it feels, both in and out of kink play.
• 21st – National Fisting Day: A day to explore advanced techniques and focus on trust, preparation, and communication.
• 22nd – National Erotic Humiliation Day: For those who enjoy consensual humiliation, this holiday emphasizes vulnerability and empowerment.

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November

Sex toys and polyamory

• 4th – National Sex Toy Day: Experiment with new devices or support independent lifestyle brands by adding to your collection.
• 23rd – Polyamory Day: Thank Canada for recognizing polyamory’s legality! Use this day to celebrate and raise awareness of ethical non-monogamy.
• 28th – Spanksgiving: Whip out your paddles and floggers to give thanks to the booty. This post-Thanksgiving celebration is all about impact play and gratitude.

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December

Pride and naughty cheer

• 8th – Pansexual Pride Day: Celebrate love without boundaries and honor the pansexual community. 

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Celebrate Your Way

Each holiday is a chance to celebrate freedom, expression, and the joy that comes from exploring sexuality. Whether you’re celebrating solo, with a partner, or as part of a community, these holidays offer a reason to pause, explore, and connect.

So, mark your calendars and make this year your kinkiest yet! What holidays are you excited to celebrate? Have ideas for new kinky holidays? Let us know in the comments!

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