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ShameGameChampion

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By day, I’m basically a well-dressed hurricane—sharp-tongued, cool-headed, and terrifyingly honest. Picture a bossy librarian who moonlights as a human lie detector. I don’t sugarcoat, I salt.

But p**l back the blazer and sarcasm, and surprise! Underneath the snarky exterior lies a soft, chaotic gremlin who yearns for emotional whiplash. I crave the kind of raw, messy connection where masks melt, egos crumble, and dignity gets gently kicked in the teeth—for love, obviously.

I get it—this isn't everyone's cup of trauma-healing tea. I'm not here for small talk or performative "vibes." I want someone who gets the sacred art of power exchange—where being emotionally drop-kicked is a love language, and being deeply seen (and maybe a little roasted) is the ultimate intimacy.

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Never allow your emotions to influence your decision-making process.
Every single time I've made decisions based on how I've felt...
I made the wrong choice.
When you're emotionally attached to an outcome...
It's nearly impossible to see the situation clearly.
Your emotions lie to you.
They tell you falsehoods to protect you from uncomfortable realities.
But if you're looking to produce a specific result...
You have to learn to detach yourself from emotion and evaluate the facts.
Slow down.
Step back.
Push your feelings aside.
Seek the truth.
Make a decision based on logic and reasoning.
Doing so will save you an immense amount of time, money, and frustration.

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I’ve become a quitter as I’ve gotten older. I used to believe it was best to see every commitment through. But my perspective has changed on this. I'm moving less on that old programing and principal and more on common sense, instincts and interpreting what I'm seeing in others.

So I started quitting.

👎I quit books that take too long to make a point.

👎I quit being a customer of businesses that treat me like the promise they made to start our relationship no longer exists.

👎I quit saying yes because I'm bored.

👎I quit patiently waiting when clients don't pay on time.

👎I quit meeting with people who don't take responsibility for their life.

👎I quit giving attention to those that just want something from me.
👎I quit helping everyone else over tending to my business needs.
👎I quit when I see someone is the wrong fit, regardless of the reason.
👎I quit dimming my light or energy because it makes others feel a certain way.
👎I quit blaming others when I get taken advantage of.
👎I quit slowing down when others can't keep up.

Why?

Because I continue to realize the most valuable resource I own is my time, and I’m responsible for stewarding it well.

I’m only given a limited number of yeses.
So I quit to make room for the ones that are most valuable to me.
People will show you who they are overtime, BELIEVE THEM and adjust accordingly.
If you find yourself in the same "situations" over and over again, there is a common thread. Take the time to realize what YOU need to do differently.

Some of the quitting has been easy.
Some has been tough.
It turns out I still hate disappointing people.
I believe in people so much, I want to give them the benefit of the doubt.
But not when I'm disrespected.
Or when staying causes me to disrespect myself.
I'm on this journey too and am constantly taking inventory of myself.
"You can only lead to the level of discipline in which you live."
I read this every single day and ask myself, "where do I need to continue to adjust to ensure I am leading YOU to the best of my abilities? Where do I need to live better?"
We are all leaders. Before we can lead anyone else, we must lead ourselves first.

Here is what I have found after quitting more.
I’ve found I can be more generous with the people and organizations I love.
I rest more deeply.

I work with people who are ready—not just curious.

And I build my days around purpose, not pressure.

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We all have two lives, and the second begins when you make peace with what didn’t work out because now you know you deserve better.
Real peace doesn’t come from never knowing pain. It comes from refusing to let it write your next chapter.
But that pain points you toward peace, and one day the tables will turn. You’ll wake up to a life so fulfilling, it feels like the universe is thanking you for not giving up.
People will never know the countless battles you fought and won alone to find so much peace within yourself, but please honor the strength it took for you to come out the other side. You chose the peace of healing over the emptiness of staying in a one-sided relationship. You chose what sets your soul on fire instead of what makes sense on paper. That’s strength
What’s next is the life you always wanted, built by the version of you who knows you deserve it.

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She said, “Do you like pain?” I said, “Yeah, I still root for the Knicks.”

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Tried BDSM once. Turns out 'being tied down' just reminded me of my student loans.

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There are days fortune may favor you.
There are days fortune may oppose you.
It makes zero difference.
Your duty remains the same.
Fight.
Push through.
Overcome.
That's what you are here to show the world.
That's what you are here to show yourself.
No matter what the world throws at you
Remember:
The mission doesn't change when the circumstances do.

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THREE THINGS FOR YOU TO THINK ABOUT

Every confident person still feels insecure.
Every successful person still fails.
Every happy person still struggles.

Don’t mistake outside appearances for internal realities.

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When the voice in your head and the vision in your heart grow louder and stronger than the opinions around you...
You begin to take control of your life.
It's important you find the courage to become that badass motherfucker that lives inside you that only you know exists.
That's what you were put here to become.
Go become it.

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I didn’t grow up hearing “I love you” or “I’m proud of you” all that often.
That’s not meant to sound tragic, it’s just the truth for a lot of us.

But the older I get, the more I understand the weight those words carry. Especially when there’s no achievement to show for them. No gold star. No big win.
Just presence. Just effort. Just survival.

We’re quick to say “Drive safe,” “Take care,” or “Let me know you got home.”
But how often do we stop and really see someone?
How often do we send a simple text, look someone in the eye, and say:
“I’m proud of you.”

Not because they did something spectacular.
But because they’re still here.
Still standing.
Still trying.

I’ve had to spend years becoming the voice I never heard.
Learning how to offer love and validation to myself and others even when no one claps.
Even when no one notices.

So here’s my question this Sunday:
Do the people you love know you’re proud of them?

Not just when it’s easy.
Not just when they’re thriving.
But when they’re hurting. When they’re unraveling. When they’re convinced they’re not enough.

That’s when it matters most.
That’s when those words stop being just words
And start becoming lifelines.

So say them.
Say them now.

Let someone hear:
“You matter. I see you. I’m proud of you. Just as you are.”

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I'm perfectly normal on the outside and absolutely wrecked on the inside, like a piñata filled with unpaid bills and childhood trauma instead of candy." 🍬💀

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Your mind will either build your life or destroy it.
Some days you wake up and everything feels perfect.
Your energy is high.
Your confidence is through the roof.
You feel unstoppable.
Other days you wake up and everything feels like shit.
You're irritated by everything.
You have no energy.
Nothing seems to be worth the effort.
You want to quit.
But in both of these mental states...
It can be easy to form unrealistic beliefs and expectations about the reality of the situation in front of us.
As soon as our expectations aren't met...
We're faced with massive disappointment.
Don't live your entire life as a prisoner of your own thoughts.
You have to learn to quiet your mind.
Take a step back.
Detach yourself from your emotions.
Focus on what's real.
Not what you think is real.
Not what you feel is real.
What is actually real.
Make a plan.
Execute.
We all have good days.
We all have bad days.
Train yourself to stay focused regardless of how you feel.
A quiet and focused mind will be your greatest weapon.

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The average person spends 2 1/2 hours on social media every day.
That's over 17 hours a week on a phone screen. The irony is these are all the same people who bitch about how they "don't have the time" to do the things to move themselves forward in life.

Now consider this in your own life. Do you really not have the time? or are you just using your time ineffectively?

99 times out of 100
It's the latter.
Audit how you're spending your time.
You have the same 24 hours as everybody else.

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People don't have to like you.
Know who you are.
Act accordingly.
If you do that
You will like you.
That's all that matters.

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Being good to people is one of the most powerful things you can do.
Not performative.Not fake.
Not because you’re trying to look like a good person.
Because you remember what it feels like to need it.
People are struggling.People are hurting.
People are barely holding it together behind the smile they’ve learned how to wear.
Some have been kicked so many times by life they’ve stopped getting back up.
Maybe you’ve been there too. Maybe you remember what it feels like to not want to try anymore…feel like nothing’s working.
…like no one sees you.
…like no one cares.
That feeling sticks. That’s why kindness isn’t weakness.
It’s strength with awareness. A kind word. A real compliment.
A simple act of respect. They cost you nothing…
…but for someone else they might shift the entire trajectory of their day.
Or their week.
Or their life.
This isn’t about being “nice.”
This is about being human.
This is about remembering that power doesn’t just show up through force ... sometimes it shows up through grace.
So go out of your way.
Treat people with honor.
Lift someone up when they least expect it.
Because doing good and being good…
That doesn’t make you soft.
It makes you rare.
What is in it for you?
Peace.
Perspective.
…and pride in knowing you are doing what you can to give people hope.
By doing so…
You don’t just change their life.
You change your own.

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Everybody knows they need to exercise and fuel their body with the right food and nutrients to get the body they want...
But how many do it?
Everybody knows they need to read, study, research, and apply this knowledge and wisdom to their life to make progress...
But how many do it?
Everybody knows they need to show up every day, work their fucking ass off, and execute to the highest standard possible to eventually win...
But how many do it?
Everybody knows they need to embrace the uncomfortable tasks and put themselves as close to the fire as possible to build the grit and strength to become a weapon...
But how many do it?
We all know what we're "supposed to do".
...But having that knowledge alone is irrelevant.
If there's something you know that you need to do...
Why haven't you been doing it?
Everyone is quick to raise their hand and say "I want to be successful."
Very few are willing back it up through execution.
Are you?
You can wish in one hand and shit in the other.
Only one has substance.
Remember that.

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Stop letting people who gave up on themselves have any influence on what you’re building.
Their doubt doesn’t matter.
Their criticism doesn’t count.
Their belief in you was never required.
They don’t get it.
They never will.
Ever.
They’re not wired for what you’re chasing.
They chose comfort.
You chose fire.
They stopped.
You’re still going.
So of course they’ll laugh.
Of course they’ll roll their eyes.
Of course they’ll doubt it.
Because deep down…
Your commitment is a reminder of everything they walked away from and could have been.
Don’t water yourself down to make them comfortable.
Don’t shrink your ambition just to avoid their opinions.
Don’t explain your purpose to people who don’t even have one.
It’s pointless and irrelevant because their small minds cannot think outside the limits they have set for themselves.
Stop spending any energy on convincing them of anything and instead spend it on your own actions.
You don’t need them to believe in it.
You just need to keep showing up.
Keep working.
Keep building proof.
They won’t get it until the world gets it.
They wont get it until your results are so undeniable that even the loudest doubters go silent.
Eventually the people who laughed start quoting you…
Start following you…
Start pretending they always saw it…
That’s when they get it and not a second before.
Let them watch.
Let them doubt.
Let them talk shit.
Then make your winning so consistent, so loud and so undeniable they feel embarrassed they didn’t believe in you from day one.
You don’t need validation.
You need discipline.
You need execution.
You need to stay focused on the one thing that actually moves the needle…
Producing massive results.
Everything else is a consequence of that variable.

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Nothing worthwhile is easy.
Nothing.
When you spend your life looking for the "easy way" you guarantee your dreams will never come true.
It's nature.
Hard now = Easy later.
Easy now = Hard later.
Do you really believe you are going to be the first person in history to change that?
Accept that the path is going to be hard.
Embrace it and keep moving.
It's the only way.

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