I'm a nice, sweet, kind virgin guy (if you think I'm really mean, I promise I'm not just look at my reviews. . But sometimes, in my head, the niceness wears off and I secretly desire to be crude, rude, demanding, belittling, and degrading. I know it's a long shot, but does anyone get turned on by being treated like absolute scum, and talked to like they are just trash and having insecurities held against you??